A Loving Farewell for a Beloved Pet

“Paw prints on your heart never go away”

The loss of a dearly-loved pet is a heartbreaking and traumatic experience for all the family.

You have loved and cherished them their whole lives long. They were completely dependent on you for food and nourishment and care.

They have given you so much: a lively dog that insisted on you taking exercise on those daily walks; a cuddly cat that kept you company and sometimes brought home the “spoils” of their night-time explorations!

We invest time and energy training our pets. They also have much to teach us - about unconditional love and loyalty; of the importance of switching off from the stresses of work.

The loss of a pet may well be the first time our children or grandchildren have encountered the reality of death. They may be thinking deeply about life and its meaning. Along with their tears, they will have questions that we shall need to answer in the best way we can.

Recently my young grandson’s goldfish died. He cried for a while, and then asked about our family dogs:

“I suppose one day they will die too. I feel sad about that.”

I believe that holding a ceremony to celebrate the life of a beloved pet can go a long way to provide comfort and reassurance for all ages.

I would very much like to support you and your family.

We can arrange the ceremony in any way that you would like. There is far more flexibility regarding time, place and content than in a funeral for our “human” family and friends.

We could hold a celebration of your pet’s life in the garden at home. You may choose to plant seeds of favourite flowers if you are laying their remains to rest there.

You might visit a local park or re-trace part of their favourite walk.

If held indoors, we could view amazing photos or a video of them having the very best time.

We can play their favourite music! We can recall that moment on the TV show that always reminded them it was time for food or a walk.

We can have a time for family to share special memories. I am experienced at leading discussions and helping even the quietest people to say what is on their hearts.

We can read poetry. If you are religious we can even say prayers.  There is plenty in the Bible about the special place animals hold in God’s heart.

Even the sparrow has found a home, and the swallow a nest for herself, where she may have her young - a place near your altar, Lord Almighty, my King and my God. - Psalm 84, verse 3 NIV

Just get in touch, and I’ll do all I can to help.